You’re Not Attracted to Her… You’re Attracted to the Pattern Ever wonder why you keep ending up in the same kind of relationship? Different face. Same emotional rollercoaster. Same cold silences. Same explosions over “nothing.” You call it chemistry. But what you’re actually feeling… is familiarity. Not because it’s love. Because it’s what your nervous system remembers. When love in your childhood looked like walking on eggshells, When connection meant performance, or silence, or pleasing… You d